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2020/06/02

安東彌勒山早課
An Dong Maitreya Hill morning lesson

讀經的方法
A guide on Sutra recitation

先靜坐三分鐘,調順呼吸,收攝心神。
Meditate for 3 minutes ,regulate your breathing, focus on your mind

眼觀經、手指經、口吐經、耳聽經、意在經、鼻孔自然呼吸,不徐不疾。
Eye focus on the sutra, finger points on the sutra, recite the sutra, listen to the sutra, mind concentration, breath naturally and unhurriedly.

經從心中起,清清淨淨。
Sutra begins in your heart, clearly and peacefully

經從眼中過,明明白白。
Sutra passes your eyes, with clarity

經從口中出,字正音圓。
Sutra comes out from your mouth , clear words and sound

經從耳中入,靈靈寂寂。
Sutra enter your ears , clearly

經從竅中落,落地有聲。
Sutra enter your conscience, and clearly heard.


2020/06/02(4)歡喜甘願 做個好媳婦之3——婆媳之間都有一道爬不過去、視不透的牆,不知道你們有沒有?妳們大部份都有這條又深又寬、跨也跨不去、跳也跳不過的鴻溝。想想,何必這樣呢?自己的女兒是女兒,別人的女兒就不是別人生的嗎?一樣都是母親懷胎十月生下來的,所以你們對自己的媳婦, 也要好好的疼愛。雖然有時不一定是婆婆的錯,在媳婦方面也有媳婦的過錯,但是妳們為什麼彼此就無法好好的講、好好的排解,一定要鬧到婆媳無法解決的地步才肯罷休?難怪那條溝會愈來愈深,無法跨過、無法跳過!妳如果把她當成是自己的女兒看待,那不就沒事了!


2020/06/02

(4)歡喜甘願,做個好媳婦之3
To be happy and willingly, be a good daughter in law - 3


濟公活佛慈語:

人與人之間,什麼樣的人最難相處呢?
Amongst people, what kind of people are the most difficult to get along with?

自古以來,婆媳之間都有一道爬不過 去、視不透的牆,不知道你們有沒有?
Since ancient times, there is a high wall between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. A barrier so high which I don't know whether you have experienced it or not?

妳們大部份有這條又深又寬、跨也跨不去、跳也跳不過去的鴻溝。
But most of you will have experienced this deep and wide gap, and no matter how hard you try, you just aren't able to bridge the gap.

想想,何必這樣呢?自己的女兒是女兒,別人的女兒就不是別人生的嗎?
Think for yourself, why should this be the case? Other people's daughter are loved just as much as you loved your own isn't?

一樣都是母親懷胎十月生下來的,所以你們對自己的媳婦,也要好好的疼愛。
They were all born by their mothers after ten months of pregnancy, so therefore you should also love your daughter-in-law.

雖然有時不一定是婆婆的錯,在媳婦方面也有媳婦的過錯,
Although sometimes it is not necessarily the mother-in-law's fault, the daughter-in-law should also bear some responsibility.

但是妳們為什麼彼此就無法好好的講、好好的排解,一定要鬧到婆媳無法解 決的地步才肯罷休?
But can't both try to understanding each other and communicate better? Must it also be heated argument each time before a compromise be made?

難怪那條溝會愈來愈深,無法跨越、無法跳過!妳如果把她當成是自己的女兒看待,那不就沒事了!
No wonder the gap gets wider and wider till the point that it can no longer be bridged! If you think of her as your own daughter, then everything is okay!

故事  story

有一對婆媳,婆婆是寡母和獨子相依為命,
There is a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; the mother-in-law is a widow and lives with her only child.

兒子成年後寡母就把農莊過到兒子名下,母子共同經營農莊,一直相安無事、生活和樂,
After the son grow up,the widow passes the farm to his son's name,Mother and son worked the farm together and live a peaceful and happy life.

直到兒子結婚,媳婦進門之後,就出現問題而且越來越嚴重。
Until the son gets married and the daughter-in-law enters the household. Problems start to occur and become more serious.

媳婦指責婆婆喜歡掌控,什麼事都要插手,抓著兒子不放,我的丈夫應該由我來照顧,
The daughter-in-law accused her mother-in-law of being a control freak, and not letting go of her son. I should be the one that takes care of my husband, thought the daughter-in-law.

婆婆到現在還搶要洗他的衣服,搶著煮飯給他吃,婆婆剝奪了我的權力,我才應該是這個家的女主人,
My mother-in-law fights to wash his clothes and rush to cook for him. My mother-in-law deprives my rights, and it is I who is the housewife of this family.

既然農莊是丈夫的名字,婆婆就應該搬出去,不要打擾我們的生活。
Since the farm is under my husband's name, the mother-in-law should move out and non't disturb our lives.

婆婆解釋說:因為農莊的事情很多, 他們每天有做不完的事,我只是想幫忙分擔一些家務而已,
The mother-in-law explained: Because there much work to be done at the farm, I just want to help share some housework.

那些重活我已做不動了,能做的就是洗衣服,煮飯等家事啊,媳婦應該感謝我,怎麼就成了抓著兒子不放,剝奪了她的權力呢?
I no longer have the energy to do heavy work, all I can do is laundry and cooking, and other household chores. My daughter-in-law should thank me. How could it be that I'm holding on to my son and depriving her of power?

婆婆說:我在農莊住了大半輩子,農莊就是我的家,雖然過給兒子名下,
The mother-in-law said: I live in the farmhouse for most of my life,the farmhouse is my home,Although I transferred the ownership to my son,

但並不是現在就給他啊,要等我死了才是他的,現在要我搬出去,妳讓我住哪兒去啊?
It does not mean I've given it completely. He will have to wait for me to pass away before its his. Move out,where do you want me to live?

省思  Reflection

《易經》:「一陰一陽之謂道」, 並不是道家旁門所講男女的陰陽, 而是講宇宙的體用。
《Book of Changes》:「Tao contains one Yin and one Yang」It is not the Yin and Yang of men and women spoken by Taoist,but the essence of the universe.

本體是寂然不動的,它起的作用,就是「用與象」。每一個現象都是相對的正反兩個力量而成,即天下萬事萬物都是相對的。
The essence is nonmoving. Its effect is「purpose and form 」. Each phenomenon is formed by the relative positive and negative forces,that is,everything in the world is relative.

《易經》所講的相對,是指宇宙間萬事萬物的相對;站在西方的邏輯來看就是矛盾。
Relatives in 《The Book of Changes 》refer to the relatives of everything in the universe; from western philosophy's perspective it may seem contradictory.

這個矛盾最後當然還是統一的、中和的。宇宙萬有一切的象,它的用都是兩個相對的力量而產生。
This contradiction is of course unified and neutral in the end. All form in the universe are produced by two opposing forces.

結論 Conclusion

一、處事要能和氣,內心要先自我調適,並從待人接物中軟化自己。

    1. Be able to handle things with ease, the heart must first adjust itself, and soften yourself by treating others

二、人生的每一段遭遇,都是我們生命中的一堂教育課程。

    1. Every encounter in life is an educational course in our lives.

對不起 請原諒我
I am sorry,please forgive me

謝謝你 我愛你
Thank you and I love you

感恩別人的提醒
Grateful for your advice

快樂是給心中知足的人
Happiness is with those who have a contented heart.

幸福是給常懷感恩的人
Good fortune, happiness, and contentment in life are with those who are always grateful.


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