上天慈悲護佑,消彌新冠肺炎病毒,讓疫情急速遠去,減少眾生苦難,使世界安樂祥和,早日恢復正常生活。 隨喜捐款 Donation

Arrow up
Arrow down


An Dong Maitreya Hill morning lesson

A guide on Sutra recitation

Meditate for 3 minutes ,regulate your breathing, focus on your mind

Eye focus on the sutra, finger points on the sutra, recite the sutra, listen to the sutra, mind concentration, breath naturally and unhurriedly.

Sutra begins in your heart, clearly and peacefully

Sutra passes your eyes, with clarity

Sutra comes out from your mouth , clear words and sound

Sutra enter your ears , clearly

Sutra enter your conscience, and clearly heard.

2020/06/02(4)歡喜甘願 做個好媳婦之3——婆媳之間都有一道爬不過去、視不透的牆,不知道你們有沒有?妳們大部份都有這條又深又寬、跨也跨不去、跳也跳不過的鴻溝。想想,何必這樣呢?自己的女兒是女兒,別人的女兒就不是別人生的嗎?一樣都是母親懷胎十月生下來的,所以你們對自己的媳婦, 也要好好的疼愛。雖然有時不一定是婆婆的錯,在媳婦方面也有媳婦的過錯,但是妳們為什麼彼此就無法好好的講、好好的排解,一定要鬧到婆媳無法解決的地步才肯罷休?難怪那條溝會愈來愈深,無法跨過、無法跳過!妳如果把她當成是自己的女兒看待,那不就沒事了!


To be happy and willingly, be a good daughter in law - 3


Amongst people, what kind of people are the most difficult to get along with?

自古以來,婆媳之間都有一道爬不過 去、視不透的牆,不知道你們有沒有?
Since ancient times, there is a high wall between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. A barrier so high which I don't know whether you have experienced it or not?

But most of you will have experienced this deep and wide gap, and no matter how hard you try, you just aren't able to bridge the gap.

Think for yourself, why should this be the case? Other people's daughter are loved just as much as you loved your own isn't?

They were all born by their mothers after ten months of pregnancy, so therefore you should also love your daughter-in-law.

Although sometimes it is not necessarily the mother-in-law's fault, the daughter-in-law should also bear some responsibility.

但是妳們為什麼彼此就無法好好的講、好好的排解,一定要鬧到婆媳無法解 決的地步才肯罷休?
But can't both try to understanding each other and communicate better? Must it also be heated argument each time before a compromise be made?

No wonder the gap gets wider and wider till the point that it can no longer be bridged! If you think of her as your own daughter, then everything is okay!

故事  story

There is a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; the mother-in-law is a widow and lives with her only child.

After the son grow up,the widow passes the farm to his son's name,Mother and son worked the farm together and live a peaceful and happy life.

Until the son gets married and the daughter-in-law enters the household. Problems start to occur and become more serious.

The daughter-in-law accused her mother-in-law of being a control freak, and not letting go of her son. I should be the one that takes care of my husband, thought the daughter-in-law.

My mother-in-law fights to wash his clothes and rush to cook for him. My mother-in-law deprives my rights, and it is I who is the housewife of this family.

Since the farm is under my husband's name, the mother-in-law should move out and non't disturb our lives.

婆婆解釋說:因為農莊的事情很多, 他們每天有做不完的事,我只是想幫忙分擔一些家務而已,
The mother-in-law explained: Because there much work to be done at the farm, I just want to help share some housework.

I no longer have the energy to do heavy work, all I can do is laundry and cooking, and other household chores. My daughter-in-law should thank me. How could it be that I'm holding on to my son and depriving her of power?

The mother-in-law said: I live in the farmhouse for most of my life,the farmhouse is my home,Although I transferred the ownership to my son,

It does not mean I've given it completely. He will have to wait for me to pass away before its his. Move out,where do you want me to live?

省思  Reflection

《易經》:「一陰一陽之謂道」, 並不是道家旁門所講男女的陰陽, 而是講宇宙的體用。
《Book of Changes》:「Tao contains one Yin and one Yang」It is not the Yin and Yang of men and women spoken by Taoist,but the essence of the universe.

The essence is nonmoving. Its effect is「purpose and form 」. Each phenomenon is formed by the relative positive and negative forces,that is,everything in the world is relative.

Relatives in 《The Book of Changes 》refer to the relatives of everything in the universe; from western philosophy's perspective it may seem contradictory.

This contradiction is of course unified and neutral in the end. All form in the universe are produced by two opposing forces.

結論 Conclusion


    1. Be able to handle things with ease, the heart must first adjust itself, and soften yourself by treating others


    1. Every encounter in life is an educational course in our lives.

對不起 請原諒我
I am sorry,please forgive me

謝謝你 我愛你
Thank you and I love you

Grateful for your advice

Happiness is with those who have a contented heart.

Good fortune, happiness, and contentment in life are with those who are always grateful.

【首頁】【經典】【三寶修持】【天然師尊】【老師的話】【論語】【孝經 】【故事】【園區】【生活】【文化】【養生】【素食】【環保】