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An Dong Maitreya Hill morning lesson

A guide on Sutra recitation

Meditate for 3 minutes ,regulate your breathing, focus on your mind

Eye focus on the sutra, finger points on the sutra, recite the sutra, listen to the sutra, mind concentration, breath naturally and unhurriedly.

Sutra begins in your heart, clearly and peacefully

Sutra passes your eyes, with clarity

Sutra comes out from your mouth , clear words and sound

Sutra enter your ears , clearly

Sutra enter your conscience, and clearly heard.

2020/05/16 (3)互敬互諒,牽手做夫妻之1——雲遊師姐慈語:再談談為人夫、為人妻的。如果你們是夫妻同修,但是對道的認知點是否都一樣呢?或許你的另一半認為天時緊急,要趕快衝、趕快辦,一個禮拜七天都不在家,甚至出國去了,而你是認為要先把家裡顧好,有空再去佛堂。因為認知點不同,所以起了爭執,有嗎?這時,彼此有了冰點,三天不講話、五天一大吵,都是了「道」而吵,這不是很可笑嗎?有時你們要多站在對方立場替他想想,彼此好好溝通,找出一個平衡點,這樣,你好他也好,知道嗎?有的人在道場上一場一場的辦,辦得很輝煌、很有成就,可是回到家呢?卻拿一張冷臉給家人看,因為很累,所以回家就是要休息,不再管其它的事了,這樣也不圓滿。知道嗎?


What you need to be a husband and wife, you need mutual respect and considerate -1                 

Let's talk about being a husband and a wife. If you are a practice-couple, but do you have the same acknowledge of the Tao?

或許你的另一半認為天時緊急,要趕快衝、快辦,一個禮拜七天都不在家, 甚至出國去了,
Maybe your other half thinks that the heavenly timing is urgent, want to rush and propagate the Tao. Seven days are not at home a week, or even go abroad for the faith and belief.

And your idea is to take care of the family first, have free time then to go to the Buddha Hall. Couples have a dispute because of their different cognitive points, have you?

At this moment, the relationship reached the freezing point, three days do not talk, five days a big quarrel. Isn't it ridiculous that all this is all about "Tao"?

彼此好好溝通,找出一個平衡點, 這樣,你好他也好,知道嗎?
Have a good time communicating with each other and find a balance. It's good for you, good for him, too, you know?

有的人在道場上一場一場的辦, 辦得很輝煌、很有成就,可是回到家呢?
Some people in the Tao field to learn to speak, do a lot of things for Tao society, the results are very brilliant. It's a great achievement, but what about coming home?

When he got home, he showed his family a cold face. Because very tired, so go home is to rest, no longer care about other things, this is not satisfactorily. You know?

故事 Story

有一對夫妻,兩個人是自由戀愛結婚的, 結婚以後,因為雙方家庭都很有教養, 所以沒有吵過架,
There is a couple, two people are free love to marry. After marriage, because the families of both parties are well educated, they have not quarreled,

不過夫妻彼此不講話,相互冷戰。 這不講話很麻煩的,男人心裡想,太太妳應該先跟我講話;
but the husband and wife do not speak to each other and they are at war with each other. It 's troublesome not to talk, the man thought, wife, you should talk to me first;

女人心裡也想,丈夫應該先和我說話,誰也不肯先開口。 平時你吃你的飯,我做我的事,家庭顯得很沉悶。
the woman also thought, the husband should talk to me first, no one would speak first. Usually you eat your meal, I do my business, the family seems very dull.

先生是一位音樂家,愛好音樂,很顧家庭, 性格也溫和,從沒有疾言遽色;
The husband is a musician, loves music, cares for his family, and has a gentle personality,never talk badly;

太太則是賢妻良母,把家庭打理非常好, 打掃得一塵不染。
The wife is a good wife and mother, and she takes good care of the family, It was spotlessly cleaned.

十多歲的女兒在旁觀看,爸爸媽媽都 這麼好,為什麼他們不親愛呢?做小孩的也不懂。
Teenage daughter watching, both parents so good, why they don't love each other?  Be a child don't understand.

有一天,太太在擦地板,先生在彈吉他, 太太忽然把抹布放下來,說:這一段很好聽耶。
One day, the wife was cleaning the floor, and her husband was playing the guitar, the wife suddenly put the rag down and said: This paragraph good to hear.

先生很驚訝:妳真的有聽我彈琴嗎? 太太:怎麼沒有聽你彈,天天都在聽你彈啊。 先生:妳怎麼都沒有告訴我呢?
The husband was surprised: Did you really listen to me playing the piano? The wife: Why didn't I listen to you play? I listen to you play every day. The husband: Why didn't you tell me?

兩個人就想,好久以來,彼此誤會, 冷戰這麼長的時間太不值得了。
The two thought, for a long time, they misunderstood each other, it's not worth they're at war with each other for so long.

後來這對夫妻的女兒長大了,也有 像母親一樣的性格,嫁給一個很好的男人,同樣的,彼此冷戰,互不講話。
Later, the couple's daughter grew up and had a mother-like personality, married a very good man, the same, they're at war with each other, not talking to each other.

所以,男女之間「對方要先對我好」, 這一個觀念要修正,用愛才能贏得愛。
Therefore, between men and women 「 the other party must treat me first, 」 This concept needs to be revised so that love can be won only with love.

省思 Reflection

其實夫妻平時要多溝通、讚美對方, 常講我愛你,你愛我,這就能促進 兩人之間的感情。
In fact, couples usually communicate and praise each other more, It is often said that I love you and you love me, which can promote the relationship between the two.

其實,夫妻之間,愛是沒有時間的, 愛是永恆的。
In fact, between husband and wife, love has no time, love is eternal.

結論 Conclusion

◎The creation of a happy family does not come from seeking or worshiping the Buddha externally,

互相體諒、自我教育、約束之中, 建立起來的。
but is established by self-cultivation, mutual understanding, self-education, and restraint.

對不起 請原諒我
I am sorry,please forgive me

謝謝你 我愛你
Thank you and I love you

Grateful for your advice

Happiness is with those who have a contented heart.

Good fortune, happiness, and contentment in life are with those who are always grateful.

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