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2020/05/06

安東彌勒山早課
An Dong Maitreya Hill morning lesson

讀經的方法
A guide on Sutra recitation

先靜坐三分鐘,調順呼吸,收攝心神。
Meditate for 3 minutes ,regulate your breathing, focus on your mind

眼觀經、手指經、口吐經、耳聽經、意在經、鼻孔自然呼吸,不徐不疾。
Eye focus on the sutra, finger points on the sutra, recite the sutra, listen to the sutra, mind concentration, breath naturally and unhurriedly.

經從心中起,清清淨淨。
Sutra begins in your heart, clearly and peacefully

經從眼中過,明明白白。
Sutra passes your eyes, with clarity

經從口中出,字正音圓。
Sutra comes out from your mouth , clear words and sound

經從耳中入,靈靈寂寂。
Sutra enter your ears , clearly

經從竅中落,落地有聲。
Sutra enter your conscience, and clearly heard.


(1)處處小心,做好父母樣之2

遊師姐慈語:身為人父母的,應當如何教育你們的孩子?現在大家都是「孝子」,孝順你們的孩子!舉一個最普通的例子:當壇主的家裡設了佛堂,只有你們夫妻倆拜就好了嗎?孩子要讀書嘛,哪有空拜拜、燒香,自己拜就好了。可是你們有沒有想到日後呢?你們是不是永遠都陪在孩子們的身邊?你有這個心愿設佛堂,可是孩子們明白嗎?只怕以後你們不在了,道親也不能再到你們家燒香了,而你的孩子會說:「那是我父母的事,我父母喜歡做道德家、宗教家,那是他們的事。我不是啊!我是受新新思想的,我跟他們不同啊!」這樣你做了一輩子,沒想到卻破了一個大洞。

如何經營您的道化家庭?

(1)處處小心,做好父母樣之2

遊師姐慈語身為人父母的,應當如何教育你們的孩子?現在大家都是「孝子」,孝順你們的孩子!
As a parent, how should you educate your children? Now all of people are "filial-parents", showing filial piety to your own children!

舉一個最普通的例子:當壇主的家裡設了佛堂,只有你們夫妻倆拜拜就好了嗎?
Take one of the most common examples: When temple host's home has a temple setup. Is it okay if it was just the parents praying?

孩子要讀書嘛,哪有空拜拜、燒香,自己拜就好了。可是你們有沒有想到日後呢?
You might say: children need to do homework and don't have time to pray. But have you thought of their future?

你們是不是永遠都陪在孩子們的身邊?你有這個心愿設佛堂,可是孩子們明白嗎?
Can you always be with your children? You have this holy-wish to set up a Buddhist hall, but does your children understand?

只怕以後你們不在了,道親也不能再到你們家燒香了,
Once you passed away, I'm afraid that Tao relatives will no longer come to your home to pray.,

而你的孩子會說:「那是我父母的事, 我父母喜歡做道德家、宗教家,那是他們的事。
And your children will say, "That's my parents' business. My parents like to be moralists and religious people, that's their business.

我不是啊!我是受新新思想的,我跟 他們不同啊!」這樣你做了一輩子, 沒想到卻破了一個大洞。
I'm not the same! I'm inspired by new ideas, I'm different from them!" In this way, you may have cultivated a lifetime yet did not expect such fallout.

想讓孩子有成就,從你自己做起
If you want your child to be successful, start with yourself

決定一個人的最終成就的,知識和智商其實只占比較少的比例。
In determine one's final success, knowledge and intelligence are only a small proportion of the equation.

而自信、溝通能力、意志力等等情商 方面占據更高的比例。
but self-confidence, communication skills, willpower, etc. occupy a higher proportion.

如果真的想「望子成龍」,應從父母 自身做起。 只有你改變了,孩子才能改變。
If parents want their children to succeed, they must start with themselves. The child can change only if you change.

父母們需要知道, 對孩子能力的培養, 不是一朝一夕的事情, 也並非是孩子長大以後才能涉及,
Parents need to know that to cultivate children's abilities, it 's not something that happens overnight, and it 's not that the child can catch up with when he grows up.

對於他們的教育要從小開始,從小事做起,向他們闡明各種道理,逐步的培養他們善於思考,
Regarding children's education, we should start teaching them reasoning, and cultivate their critical thinking skills

判斷是非能力,培養健康的性格和人格以適應社會。
In order have judgement between right and wrong and cultivate a healthy character to adapt into society.

家庭是社會最基本的單位,家庭若出現 問題,可能影響整個社會。
The family is the most basic unit of society. The problem may affect the entire society.

應帶給子女好的榜様,將影響子女 一生的成就,可見家庭之重要。
It is important to be our children's role model, as it will affect their achievements in later life.

孟母三遷
Mencius's mother had moved her house three times

孟子小時候,家靠近墓地,所以他常和鄰近的孩子們一起學大人祭祀,玩得很開心。
When Mencius was a child, his home was near the cemetery, so he often learned the works of priesthood of with neighboring children and had a great time.

孟子的母親看他這樣子,非常擔心, 便說:「這地方不能讓孩子住下去。」於是遷移到巿集上去。
Mencius's mother was very worried, thinking that she can longer let her child stay here. So they moved to a market.

在巿集上,孟子又和鄰近的孩子聚在一起,把買賣當作一種遊戲。
In the market, Mencius got together with the neighboring children again, and mimicked the buying and selling of the market as a game.

孟母見了,皺皺眉頭: 「不行,不能讓孩子在這裡住下去。」於是又搬家了。
Mencius's mother saw it and frowned, thinking once again that they would have to move. So they moved again.

第三次,他們搬到學校附近。 孟子學會的是學校中的一切,他和孩子們玩游戲時,是守秩序,講禮貌。
The third time, they moved near to a school. Mencius learned everything in the school. When playing games with the children, he was orderly and polite.

這時孟母才放心下來:「對啦!這才是最適合我的孩子居住的地方。」
Then Mencius's mother was relieved: 「Yes! This is the best place for my children to live.」

結論 Conclusion

《三字經》: 「昔孟母,擇鄰處,子不學,斷機抒。」
《The Three Character 》: 「Then Mencius' mother, Chose her neighbor. As Mencius slothed, She cut the cloth.」

父母是孩子一生中最重要的啟蒙老師。
Parents are the most important enlightenment teachers in a child's life.


對不起 請原諒我
I am sorry,please forgive me

謝謝你 我愛你
Thank you and I love you

感恩別人的提醒
Grateful for your advice

快樂是給心中知足的人
Happiness is with those who have a contented heart.

幸福是給常懷感恩的人
Good fortune, happiness, and contentment in life are with those who are always grateful.